Have you just received that long-awaited invitation? Congratulations! Now comes the big question: what to wear to the ceremony? Don't panic, choosing your wedding guest outfit isn't that complicated when you know the right rules.
Mistakes to avoid
The golden rule: respect the bride and groom
The first thing to remember: you're not the star of the day! Your suit or dress should be elegant without stealing the show. So avoid white (reserved for the bride-to-be) and overly extravagant outfits that would distract from what matters most: the couple's love.
What should I avoid wearing to a wedding?
- The full blank (unless expressly requested by the future spouses)
- Colours that are too flashy and could offend
- Plunging necklines for a religious ceremony
- Miniskirts at a formal ceremony
What colour should I choose for my wedding outfit?
Tones that breathe joy
Choose colors that reflect the celebration! Pastel shades, royal blue, burgundy, or emerald green create a sophisticated look. Don't hesitate to ask the bride and groom if they've chosen a particular palette.
How can I be sure that my colour is right?
Find out more about :
- The colours chosen by the procession
- The general theme of the reception
- The location of the evening (castle, beach, garden, etc.)
Women's wedding attire: the right pieces to choose
The dress, a safe bet for guests
For a successful feminine wedding outfit, a dress remains a safe choice. Opt for a cut that flatters you while remaining appropriate. A mid-length dress with a flowing cut will be perfect for dancing all evening long!
For more inspiration on choosing your outfit, check out our tips for planning a fairytale wedding, where we discuss romantic dresses and elegant guest outfits.
How about a chic jumpsuit?
Looking for originality? The elegant jumpsuit is all the rage! It's modern, comfortable, and incredibly stylish. Choose a well-fitting piece with a luxurious fabric for a beautiful and sophisticated look.
Pregnant: how do I adapt my outfit?
Mum-to-be invited? Don't worry! Choose :
- Empire dresses that enhance your figure
- The fluid cuts that give you ease
- Stretch fabrics for your comfort
If you'd like to learn more about wedding dress traditions, check out our complete guide to wedding traditions in France, including the symbols of the veil and traditional accessories.
Men's wedding attire: the winning suit
How do I choose the right suit?
Gentlemen, your costume must be impeccable! Opt for:
- A fit that's not too tight
- Classic colours (navy blue, anthracite grey)
- Pants of the right length
- A perfectly ironed shirt
Which accessories are right for the perfect look?
- A matching tie or bow tie
- Well-shined leather shoes
- A suit pocket for the finishing touch
Adapting to the type of wedding
Country weddings: go natural
For a wedding in the great outdoors, adopt a relaxed chic style:
- Flowing dresses with floral prints
- Natural materials (linen, cotton)
- Flat shoes or shoes with small heels to avoid sinking into the grass
Evening weddings: elegance is the order of the day
For an end-of-day reception, enhance your wedding outfit:
- Finer fabrics (silk, satin)
- Stronger colours
- More sophisticated accessories
Special cases: best man and special guests
Are you the best man? Pay particular attention to your look
En tant que témoin, vous apparaîtrez sur de nombreuses photos ! Votre tenue de mariage doit être irréprochable :
- Impeccable suit for men
- Dress or outfit chic for women
- Possible coordination with the rest of the procession
The collective effect: coordinating without standardising
If you're part of the procession, think about collective harmony while maintaining your personality. A uniform, yet not monotonous, look is the goal!
Frequently asked questions about wedding attire
Can I wear black to a wedding?
Contrary to popular belief, black is perfectly acceptable! Simply choose a piece with colorful details or more cheerful accessories.
How should I dress for different seasons?
Winter : Choose warm fabrics, long sleeves and don't forget your elegant coat.
Summer: Light materials, light colors, but be careful of sunburn during the ceremony!
What should you wear if you are the mother of the bride and groom?
Your wedding dress should reflect your special status:
- Classic elegance
- Distinctive colours
- Discreet coordination with the overall theme
Accessories and finishing touches for the perfect wedding outfit
The details that make all the difference
- Delicate jewellery that catches the light
- Handbag to match, but not too small (think photos, handkerchiefs...)
- Comfortable shoes to last through the evening.
The art of balance
A successful wedding outfit is above all a question of balance: chic without being stuffy, original without being eccentric, beautiful without overshadowing the bride and groom.
Our final advice
Remember: you're here to celebrate love! Your wedding outfit should allow you to fully enjoy this special evening. Choose something you feel comfortable and confident in.
And if you're looking for the perfect setting to organize your own wedding in the Pernes-les-Fontaines region, the Château des 3 Fontaines welcomes you in a sumptuous setting. Our team will be able to advise you to make your day unforgettable, from the wedding attire of the guests to the smallest details of your ceremony.
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