The role of bridesmaid dates back to ancient times, when these young women were tasked with protecting the bride from evil spirits. Today, although this superstition has disappeared, bridesmaids remain essential figures, providing support and assistance to the bride-to-be throughout the preparations and on the big day.
The modern responsibilities of a bridesmaid
Before the wedding: organisation and emotional support
In the run-up to the big day, the bridesmaids are true pillars of support for the bride. They help organise events such as the hen party and assist in choosing the wedding dress and are there to listen to and reassure the bride-to-be during stressful moments.
D-Day: support and coordination
During the ceremony, they ensure that everything runs smoothly.They help the bride get ready, welcome the guests, and may even play a role in the ceremony itself,such as giving a reading or distributing programmes.
A wedding has an average of 3 to 5 bridesmaids, depending on traditions and the size of the event.
How to choose your bridesmaids
Selection criteria
The bridesmaids are usually chosen from among the bride's close friends and family : sisters, best friends, cousins. The key is to choose people you trust, who you can rely on and with whom you want to share this unique moment.
Ideal number
While there are no hard and fast rules, it is common to have between two and six bridesmaids, depending on the size of the wedding and the bride's preferences. Balance is key: not too few, so as not to overload the bridesmaids with tasks, nor too many, so as not to complicate the organisation.
The bridesmaids' outfits
Current trends
Gone are the matching dresses of yesteryear! The trend is now for coordinated but not identical outfits, allowing each bridesmaid to express her personality. Pastel colours, flowing cuts and sheer fabrics are popular for a look that is both chic and romantic..
Tips for matching the wedding theme
For a perfect harmony, it is a good idea to choose outfits that match the theme and colours of the wedding. The bride can give general guidelines (length, colour palette) while leaving her bridesmaids some leeway to find the dress that suits them best.
Anecdote
At a wedding in Château des 3 Fontaines the bridesmaids opted for long dresses in shades of pastel blue, reminiscent of the colours of the Provençal sky.A wise choice that blends beautifully into the enchanting setting of the estate !
Original ideas for involving bridesmaids
Pre-wedding activities
To strengthen your bond, there is nothing like spending time together before the wedding. Photo shoots, DIY workshops to create decorative items, dance classes... The possibilities are endless for creating unforgettable memories.
Special moments during the ceremony
On the big day, set aside a few moments to bond with your bridesmaids. A group photo, a heartfelt toast, a song sung together... These personal touches will make the ceremony even more memorable.
The Château des 3 Fontaines: the perfect setting to enhance the role of bridesmaids
With its majestic spaces and enchanting park, the Château des 3 Fontaines provides a dream setting to enhance the role of the bridesmaids. Imagine them walking down the central aisle of the Orangery, bathed in natural light, or pose for unforgettable photos in the French gardens…
The Château des 3 Fontaines can accommodate up to 500 guests in cocktail configuration, enough to create a grand wedding where the bridesmaids will have a prominent position.
In addition, the château's experienced team is on hand to help you organise a tailor-made wedding, with particular attention paid to every detail. Your bridesmaids will be pampered and will thus be able to devote themselves fully to their special role with the bride.
In short, the role of bridesmaid has evolved with the times, while retaining its essence: be there for the bride in theone of the most important days of his life. Choose your bridesmaids carefully, involve them in the preparations and entrusting them with key moments during the ceremony are all ways of highlighting this special bond.
And to offer these exceptional women a setting worthy of their dedication, what could be better than an exceptional location such as the Château des 3 Fontaines ? A choice that will undoubtedly transform the most beautiful day of your life into an unforgettable fairy tale, both for you and your bridesmaids.
