You're almost there! In a few weeks' time, you're going to experience that long-awaited moment: your wedding ball opening. I know you're asking yourself a thousand questions. What can you do to make it perfect? Which dance should you choose? What if you stumble in front of everyone?
Take a deep breath. Your ball opening shouldn't be a source of stress, but a moment of pure love that you'll share with the person who means the most to you. Let me guide you to create an unforgettable ball opening that's simple and authentic.
What makes a ball opening really special?
You know what makes the difference between a successful ball opening and a magical moment? It's not technical perfection. It's the emotion you convey. Your guests won't remember if you missed a step. They'll remember your smiles, your knowing glances, that bubble of love that surrounds you on the dance floor.
The ball opening is much more than just an entertainment: it's the symbol of your union that opens on the dance floor. It's your first official experience as a married couple in front of your nearest and dearest.
What are the steps involved in preparing a wedding ball opening?
1. Define your style together
First of all, ask yourself the right questions: are you more of a romantic couple or a quirky one? Do you prefer tradition or originality? This will guide all your choices.
2. Choose your favourite music
The choice of music is the basis of your ball opening. The song has to sound like you and tell your story. Perhaps it's the song you first heard together, or simply one that gives you chills when you listen to it together?
3. Adapt the dance to your level
Let's be honest: you don't need to be professional dancers! The important thing is to feel comfortable. If you're just starting out, a simple waltz or a tender slow dance will do just fine.
4. Prepare without stress
Take a few lessons if it makes you feel better, but don't put any pressure on yourself. Even the greatest dancers have their moments. The most important thing is to have fun and enjoy this unique moment.
How do you choose the music for the ball opening?
The golden rule: listen to your heart
Forget about "you must" and "we must". Your ball opening should be just like you. Do you love the Beatles? Perfect! Got a hankering for Coldplay? Go for it! Dreaming of a French song? You'll love it!
Some practical criteria
- Duration : Aim for between 3 and 4 minutes maximum. Anything more and your guests (and you!) are likely to get impatient.
- The rhythm : Make sure the tempo matches your dance
- Sound quality : Check that the version is of good quality for your DJ
Our suggestions by musical scale
For romantics : “All of Me” by John Legend, “Perfect” by Ed Sheeran, “La Vie en Rose” by Edith Piaf
For nostalgic fans: “At Last” by Etta James, “Can’t Help Myself” by the Four Tops
For the modern : “Marry Me” by Train, “Speechless” by Dan + Shay
What types of dance are popular for a ball opening?
Reliable values that still work
The waltz: elegance and simplicity The waltz is still THE classic ball opening. And why is that? Because it's both elegant and accessible. Even beginners can master the basic steps in just a few lessons. On stage, the effect is always striking.
Slow motion: intimacy and emotion The slow dance is the perfect solution if you want to focus on pure emotion. No complicated technique, just the two of you swaying gently to the music. Simple, dry, effective.
Dances that spice things up
Latin dances: salsa and bachata Want to set your party alight? Salsa and bachata will turn your ball opening into a show! These dances bring a crazy energy and sensuality that will electrify your guests.
Rock: for dynamic couples Rock is the perfect choice for couples who like to move and have fun. This dance requires a little more preparation, but the entertainment it generates is incomparable.
Original choices that make a lasting impression
Zouk: exoticism and fluidity Brazilian zouk adds an exotic touch to your ball opening. Its fluid movements and upbeat music create an unforgettable festive atmosphere.
Vintage dances: Charleston, balboa For a retro wedding, these dances from the Roaring Twenties are perfect. They add a touch of originality while remaining elegant.
How do you personalise your ball opening?
Create your own choreography
Why not mix different styles? Start with a romantic waltz, then move on to a frenzied rock! This transition will surprise your guests and make your ball opening unique.
Involve your family and friends in the game
Imagine your guests' surprise when suddenly your witnesses, then your parents, join the dance floor for a flashmob! This collective performance will transform your ball opening into an extraordinary moment of sharing.
Tell your story with music
Create a medley of the songs that have marked your relationship: when you met, your first trip, your proposal... Each transition tells a chapter of your love story.
Our tips for a successful ball opening
Stay authentic
The most beautiful ball opening is the one that reflects you. Don't try to copy what you've seen on Instagram. Your experience will be unique because it will be yours.
Manage your stress
Are you nervous? It's perfectly normal! Here are a few simple tips:
- Take a deep breath before entering the runway
- Look into each other's eyes and forget everything else
- Just smile! Even if you miss a step, your joy will be contagious.
Prepare your outfit
Think practical! Brides, make sure your dress allows you to move freely. Brides, make sure your suit doesn't pinch your shoulders. Your ease of movement will show immediately.
FAQ : Your questions about opening a ball
How long should a ball opening last? Between 3 and 5 minutes maximum. Any longer and your guests' attention is likely to wander.
Is it absolutely necessary to take dance lessons? No! If you choose a simple dance like the slow, your natural complicity will be enough. Lessons are a plus, not an obligation.
What should you do if you make a mistake during the dance? Just smile and carry on! Your guests won't even notice. And if it's really noticeable, turn the mistake into a moment of complicity by laughing together.
Can I change the music during dance class? Absolutely! Musical transitions can create magical moments and pleasant surprises for your guests.
The Château des 3 Fontaines: the setting for an exceptional ball opening
Imagine your ball opening in a breathtaking setting. The Château des 3 Fontaines offers the perfect backdrop to turn your first dance into a cinematic moment.
A space designed for dance
Our 470 m² reception room bathed in natural light creates the perfect atmosphere for your ball opening. The quality parquet flooring and exceptional acoustics will enhance every step of your dance.
Personalised support
Our team understands the importance of this unique moment. We put our network of partner dance teachers at your disposal so that you can prepare with complete peace of mind. From the choice of music to the dress rehearsal, we're with you every step of the way.
And if you're still wondering why rent a castle for your wedding, the exceptional acoustics and spaciousness of our reception room will naturally enhance your ball opening.
Memories immortalised
The majestic setting of the château, with its 10-hectare park and 19th-century façade, offers a dream setting for immortalising your ball opening. Every photo and video will capture the magic of this moment.
To discover the Provençal art of living that will sublimate your celebration, don't hesitate to read our article on the charms of a wedding in Provence, where the ball opening takes on an even more authentic and warm dimension.
Your ball opening is waiting for you
Your wedding is approaching, and with it that magical moment you've been waiting for so long. Never forget that the most beautiful ball opening is the one where you are yourselves, where your love shines through in every gesture, in every look.
It doesn't matter whether you choose a classic waltz, a wild rock or a totally original creation. The most important thing is that the dance tells your story and creates a lasting memory for you and your guests.
So, are you ready to start your new life? The Château des 3 Fontaines is waiting to make your dream come true. Your love story deserves the most beautiful of settings, and your ball opening deserves the most beautiful of stages.
